I've recently had a key realization about book writing, especially when it comes to writing memoir and non-fiction.
Many times, people think the writing process will allow them to quickly (and easily) unlock or unravel buried feelings or insights. But this misconception sets an unrealistic expectation and creates potential roadblocks.
As is the case with therapy (ask me how I know), there’s no set timeline for completing a book, and the process is often more complex and time-consuming than anticipated.
So here's my $0.02 on how to best navigate the unexpected detours that often arise while writing a book you'll be incredibly proud to release to the world.
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When it comes to book writing, "I'm waiting for inspiration/motivation" is often code for "I have no idea where this is going and it scares the sh*t out of me so I'll figure it out another day."
But there are ways around (read: through) this challenge.
In this episode, I offer some of my favorite tips so that you can get out of "waiting" and into writing!
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A program for writing powerful, thought-provoking nonfiction or memoir.
This is for you if you:
✍️ Want to write a powerful book, making sure you're avoiding common (and unnecessary) mistakes along the way
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Gail Priest is the author of five books (including a trilogy). Her latest, Soul Dancing, was released on April 2024 through Red Adept Publishing.
In this episode of Write the Damn Book Already, Gail shares her writing process using mind mapping and discusses her approach to marketing and pitching her work.
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In the latest episode of Write the Damn Book Already, Joselyn Takacs and I discussed her first novel, Pearce Oysters (Zibby Books, 6/25/2024).
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ABOUT JOSELYN
Joselyn Takacs holds a PhD in Creative Writing and Literature from the University of Southern California and an MFA in Fiction from Johns Hopkins University. Her fiction has appeared in Gulf Coast, Narrative, Tin House, Harvard Review, The Rumpus, DIAGRAM, Columbia: A Journal of Art and Literature, and elsewhere.
She has published interviews and book reviews in the Los Angeles Review of Books and Entropy. Joselyn has taught writing at the University of Southern Californ...
A revelation hath...revealed itself. (It's 7:17pm, and my brain cells have stopped firing almost entirely.)
Last week, I posted about this revelation: that the process of writing a book is very much like a reverse hourglass (or, say, a stomach, if you're a "Grey's Anatomy" fan).
[If you missed that post on figuring out what your book is about, you can read all about it here.]
It stinks that most writers don't realize where the starting place actually is (and that it's often important to spend more time there than one thinks).
I didn't understand this myself for many years!
And the bottleneck this creates causes them to think they're doing something wrong when, in fact, they're just like everyone else writing a book!
This is the BIG part of the reverse hourglass, or stomach, and it's where the bulk of the work/writing takes place.
(Who's dying to hire me to illustrate their children's book. Anyone? Hello?).
You k...
I often say, "We write (or talk) our way INTO what what we want to say."
It's somewhat similar to talking yourself into doing something—using words to explore how you feel or why something seems scary in order to get to the root of the what and the why.
During a recent Book Writers Collective call, I realized, by talking my way into it, that when writing/publishing a book, we experience a "reverse hourglass" effect of sorts.
For fun, I also envision it as a stomach (ironically, the body part most heavily churning with anxiety and trepidation during this adventure).
Without knowing that the first step (of 3) is one of two bottlenecks, many of us get stuck there. Which is both unfortunate and unnecessary!
Allow me to explain via a delightfully friendly graphic.
As you can see, the first step is one of two bottlenecks—points where you're most likely to become quit.
And that step is...
...figuring out what the hell the book is about!
Is it about a specific time in your lif...
The time has come! We're finally able to move on from the days of traditional offset printing to print-on-demand options when it comes to children's books and cookbooks. Whether you're contemplating watercolor illustrations for a children's book or publishing a mouthwatering cookbook, this episode is for you!
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The story is always unfolding...
In this episode of Write the Damn Book Already, I spoke with Diana Naranjo about her memoir (which is currently on submission). She recounts a pivotal moment where a professional connection with author Abraham Verghese (Cutting for Stone, The Covenant of Water) led to her first agent connection.
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WHAT DIANA'S READING NOW
Tell Me Everything: The Story of a Private Investigation by Erika Krouse
In a Not So Perfect World by Neely Tubati Alexander
The Covenant of Water and Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese
Everyone But Myself by Julie Chavez
Tough Titties by Laura Belgray
It's important to give yourself permission to try different approaches and strategies when writing and publishing a book.
Don't feel pressured to follow the advice of others if it doesn't align with your goals or preferences.
Consistency and courage are key to finding success in your writing journey.
In this episode of the Write the Damn Book Already podcast, we discuss the importance of giving yourself permission to do what feels right for your book, regardless of the advice and opinions of others. Let's dive in and explore the power of embracing your own path.
In the world of book writing and publishing, there is no shortage of advice and opinions on the "right" way to do things. From running ads to choosing the perfect marketing strategy, it can be overwhelming to navigate through the sea of recommendations. However, it's crucial to remember that what works for one person may not work for anot...